Creative Energy Yields Haters and Naysayers but Also Success
I was just a preteen when I first started making marionettes. I was fascinated by them and visited the community library every day after school to read more about how to construct them. It was about six months later, in a late summer of the late 1970s, that my first marionette emerged. It was beautiful, at least to me, but my siblings rolled their eyes at me and mouthed off negative reviews. I did not care what they said, for something had happened within, and that something is called creative energy. It is the motivating factor that propels every artist to keep refining their work.
And as my legs grew longer, more marionettes and puppets emerged from my makeshift pantry and living room closet workshops. And along with the new puppets came even greater criticism and name-calling from the other boys in my neighborhood, but I stayed on the creative path and channeled my energy into improving the puppets and marionettes. Then one day it occurred to me that my creations needed clothing changes, and this fact proved to be a conundrum that was not easily solved. I knew nothing about making clothing, but I had observed doll clothes from girls who had them. Off to the library again, I flew to study my newest motivation. However, the small library in my community, all the way on the South Side of Chicago, had nothing to offer me. I left mostly perplexed but a little sad. On the way home that afternoon, it occurred to me to wrap the puppets in fabric. I took old clothing and anything else I could find and cut pieces to fit the marionettes. According to my sister, the results were awful, but I did not care; it was a step forward.
And so the story goes that, somewhere between making clothing for my imaginary friends before I had any real ones, I morphed my ideas into real humans and started designing clothing for women. And at first, the creations were really bad, but I did not see it. Maybe my guardian angel protected my teenage heart. I met my best friend that year, and we were so much alike. He liked to draw women in clothes, so I started doing the same. It took me a year from that time to become a teenage fashion designer in Chicago. And I started selling handkerchiefs and scarves that I had embroidered and made on the first child sewing machine I received as a Christmas gift (secretly from my Mom). My sewing was terrible back then, but I knocked on doors, and all the neighborhood women purchased them for $2.00 each. I thought that I was rich because I had never made money before. Well, I tried for a few weeks to be a paperboy, but it was a lot of work for just barely enough to pay $1.50 to see the movie Mahogany starring Diana Ross at the Roseland theater.
And while the other boys in the neighborhood called me names and I fought at school, I forged ahead with my young, creative fashion energy. One fight with a guy named Anthony was actually over a bright tangerine-colored top I had handmade from curtains and an old sweater. The garment was beautiful — a testament to the kind of bold, handcrafted artistry that now defines pieces like our Hand Painted Shirt Collection — and he hated me because it really was gorgeous. In the lunch line, Anthony came up to me saying, "What is this #$%&*@," and then snatched off one of my hand-stitched sleeves. We had a fight, and I was suspended for defending my craft. In my time of reflection, I learned that the problem was not Anthony; it was my sewing. He should never have been able to pull off my sleeve. I practiced more and made more durable clothing for myself.
And the saga of life continued alongside my creative energy, and I met people who helped and taught me, and my designs were soon good enough for people to purchase. And I remember lines of young girls waiting outside my childhood home to be fitted for prom dresses. All along, people spoke negatively about me and what I was doing, and some even added really hurtful comments such as, "he will never make it because he comes from the projects and he's poor." A relative complained when he had helped the family during a rough spot, "If you're the next best thing since sliced bread, where's the money?" I went on to make thousands of high-fashion garments for my couture clients in Chicago. My story was interesting enough to be featured in newspapers, magazines, and television news, and I even had my line in several stores. Soon, I was in New York and working as a fashion designer in the garment center. In time, I became a respected fashion professional, college professor and even a published fashion author on Fairchild Books. And now I am launching a new line here on Shopify under Stacy Menswear Couture — bespoke, made-to-order garments including our signature Faux Persian Lamb Collection, refined Tweed Collection, and impeccably tailored Windsor Pleated Pants. However, let me tell you that there are still naysayers and negative nitpickers swarming around. Ask me if I care?
If you are reading this and it touches you, that is because you have also been a victim of negative banter and discouraging comments. Do not give up on your dreams because they will come true. Polish your craft and focus your creative energy away from the negative white noise. It is never too early nor too late to start. Explore the full Fall Winter 2026 Collection and see where decades of creative resilience have led.
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Inspiring, being a creative visionary is always challenging. Never be discouraged!
I love the story. I love the journey I was taken on while reading the story.